My Golden Rules which are in some form or other in the majority of UK primary schools are a simple distillation of complex universal moral values. I pulled them together after working in the early 80s/90s with thousands of children and adults around what rules they wanted in their schools.
When studying all their “don’ts and do’s” that I realised they all fell naturally into six areas so children of all ages can access them.
My Golden Rules …
Respect For Physical Safety – We Are Gentle
Respect For Emotional Safety – We Are Kind
Respect For The Truth – We Are Honest
Respect For The Environment – We Look After Things
Respect For Others – We Listen
Respect For Self – We Work Hard
Later ‘Rights Respecting Schools’ became concerned that children should ‘own’ the rules themselves. I urge them to go ahead with this vision and get the children to debate and scribe their own rules – but then, using their words you can actually shuffle them under the six headings. So the children can see that we are all saying the same thing in different ways.
You cannot have lists of different rules in different places throughout the school. To embed values into ‘hot’, sometimes chaotic minds of lively children, they need to have values that are repeated, simple and backed up by corresponding images. These values should be up in every classroom, corridor, dining hall and playground.
Individual teachers often want to write up classroom etiquette with the children, such as ‘we put our things away’ ‘we put our hands up when we speak’, ‘we line up calmly’. Great – do it – but I call these ‘Class Routines’ and I help children and teachers draw a line from the routine to the Golden Rule that it belongs to. For example ‘we line up calmly’ – belongs to the Golden Rule ‘We Are Gentle’.
Only when the Golden Rules are embedded can children truly access the deeper more complex universal values such as tolerance, justice, compassion and fairness. There are many more.
Next year is the 800th year celebration of the Magna Carta. Yesterday I went to look at it again in Salisbury Cathedral. It’s a humbling, magnificent groundbreaking visionary document that makes you proud to be British. Those Barons were terrier like in their insistence on pushing through these values of freedom, justice and equality – we now are the behaviour barons and need to push through the values so all parents and children learn to love them too.
Magna Carta 1215
Clause 38 – in future no official shall place a man on trial upon his own unsupported statement, without producing credible witnesses to the truth of it.
Clause 39 – no free man shall be seized or imprisoned, or stripped of his rights or possessions, or outlawed or exiled, or deprived of his standing any other way, nor will we proceed with force against him, or send others to do so, except by the lawful judgement of his equals or by the law of the land.
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